My Birth Story

It might be weird for you to see "my birth story" coming from a father, but what I experienced with my wife and daughter was the most incredible, sacred, and intimate thing I have ever experienced. Yes, more intimate than how that baby was made.

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This is not how most people describe the birth of their child, especially fathers. Most fathers I talk to waited for their child to be born, were yelled at by their spouse when they weren't being helpful, or felt anxious not knowing what to do or believing that all they can do is cheer from afar.

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I coached my wife through every single contraction using the "Bradley Method," a method devised by Dr. Bradley utilizing different positions and the husband as the director and coach of the birth. I delivered my child, in my own home, with just my wife and the midwife, for the birth of our FIRST child, and my wife not only didn't yell at me once but has stated multiple times that she has no idea how she would have done it without me.

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I've spoken with others who had homebirths, or tried to have homebirths, and it comes out of their mouths with a sour taste.

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So many are waking up to the fact that birth is a natural process and that the woman's body is made for it. What many people don't realize yet is how crucial the husband is to the birth process. Not only for the sake of the mother and the child, but for the sake of the father as well.

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If your plan is to take a backseat in your child's birth and "let your wife do her thing," then you are better off letting the doctor wear the pants and go home.

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But that is not what God had in mind for your wife's labor and the birth of your child.

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If you are scared, nervous, or lacking confidence as an expecting father, then you are exactly the person I want to mentor.

 

If you are excited and confident, but are not sure what to do with that emotion, you are exactly the person I want to mentor.

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Schedule a discovery call so that we can prepare you for your wife's labor and the birth of your child.